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• Erotic Mastery, Mutual Pleasure, and a Breakthrough in Your Confidence with Women Are Yours, If You Want Them.“Which of these 9 lies are preventing you from Experiencing Deep Sensual Pleasures with Beautiful Women?”Do any of these thoughts run roughshod over your confidence?I am unattractive, and can’t get a beautiful woman to look at me.I don’t know what to do, or how to touch a woman to pleasure herI am unworthy, and don’t deserve a hot, intimate relationshipI am too fat, too thin, or too short, and women don’t like that.I am boring, uninteresting and plain.I don’t know what to say to a woman I want to be close to.I am afraid I won’t last long enough in bedI am not well endowedI can’t compare to the other guys she’s dated, or other guys she could date now.You’re Listening to Grant Adams.
• Click to Pause or Play.Nearly every single one of us has sabotaged himself with one of these self-generated stories.Let me tell you mine because I think it’s instructive (if a little embarrassing).You know the beginning of my story, not because it’s mine, but because it’s the story of thousands of men.
• Maybe even you.A short 6 years ago I found myself standing on the corner of Wilshire Blvd and 26th Street in Los Angeles, believing I was ugly, overweight, repulsively bald, and a failure.
• Not only that, I actually believed my hands were ugly – yet another parting “belief-gift” from my ex-wife.I was full of shame and self-doubt.I had just lost my marriage, my job, my family, and the last shreds of self confidence I owned. My then-wife had drilled these “flaws” into my head repeatedly for the last few years of the marriage.
• I heard it so much, I began replaying her words over and over in my head.Which is where the problem really existedEventually those beliefs became real to me . . .